Default futures.

Does the future exist? If so, how is it created? If not, what are we living onto?

I get lost when trying to unravel how creating a relationship (or creating anything) projects something into the future, calls it forth, so to speak, and how, or even if, a default future exists. Like is there an unintentional, uncreated, future? Do animals or unconscious people live into such default futures? Do I when I get resigned, despair, or am caught in the past? Or is the default future created by the cumulative creation of those who intentionally create? And if we could unlearn all the constraints of our culture and society, what could we create for relationships, wellbeing, sustainability, abundance...